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A request to the administrator of this forum to change the name of this Topic from “Azeri Guys Living Abroad And Marriage” to “Azerbaijanis Living Abroad and Marriage”. Potomu chto ya ne xotel by oskarbit’ femenistok/femenistov etovo foruma. Chox sagolun.

You are turning it into a confrontation. I do not have time to get involved and explain it to you. You are too “cool” for me. To Carrie and Medeya. Yazikovix problem absolutno ne voznikalo. A vot dumayu chto mogut vozniknut v budeshem naprimer kogda ya pereyedu s semyoy v Azerbaijan po rabote. Voznikayet dilemma – chto proizaydet? Kak ona budet obshatsa s moimi rodstvenikami. K tomu je nikto ne protiv smeshannix brakov. Seychas mena v nazionalista prevratat. Xota mogu privesti drugoy negativniy primer gde Amerikanetz jenilsa na Azerbaiojanke kotoraya byla exchange student. She regrets it so much. Poor girl goes through hell every- Krome tovo daje v Shatatx gde schitayetsa chto rodeiteli ne imeyut vliyaniye na semyu ix detey kak I v dannom sluchaye. Vozmojno eto potomu chto paren, Amerikanez, byl molodoy I bez opyta tak kak on nekogda ne byl v drugix staranax. My conclusion is based on what I see. Chto je kasayetsa Azerbaijnaskovo mentaliteta I naschet chaya I devushek iz gornix rayonov to ya ojidal uslyshat eto ot nashix femenistok lol , a ne ot Shatena. No opat je poxoje on namnogo civilizovanneye I obrazovanneye mena.

A coulpe of hours of driving from NY. Kak ya ponal ty v NY state.

Grubo molodoy chelovek. Esli ty ne soglasen ne znachit chto ty etalon intilekta. Ty dla mena ty "ultra gorodskoy daaa". Koshmar spasibo naschet soveta i "sterv" kak follita perevela. K sojeleniyu oni est vezde. U mena drug byl iz Azerbaijana. Zakonchil universitet v Shtatax tak skazat poluchil rabotu on his way to become a US resident. On jenilsa na svoey tak skajem "soul mate" iz Azerbaijana kotoruyu znal esho v Azerbaijane. Nu tak vot kak tolko ekonomika v US poshla vniz evo vmeste s drugimi uvolili ili je pravilneye budet skazat laid off. U nevo ostavalos bukvalno neskolko mesyazev chto by poluchut' green kartu, no vse poshlo ... magko govora. Nu tak vot eta samaya "soul mate" okazalas stervoy i ne davalo emu pokoya. Bedniy parnishka byl v depressii. Xota byl sluchay s drugim znakomym kotorovo jena polnostyu podderjivala i u nevo vse poluchilos. Naschet soveta priexat v NY, i doubt it. Pochemu to nashi devushki studentki (ne vse, no bolshinstvo) priexav srazu je xotat viyti zamuj za Amerikanza osobenno te kotoriye priexali po exchange program(sorry i did not mean to insult anybody, just merely stating facts). I nakonetz est esho drugoy faktor - identity crisis. Proyda boleye chtverti jizni vne Azerbayjana toje otrajayetsa na cheloveke. Ya pokinnul Azerbaijan posle okonchaniya shkoly. Tak chto daje ne znayu chto ojidat ot nashix mestnix chestno govora. Sredi Amerikok toje est xoroshiye, no bolshintvo iz nix iz konservativnix religioznix semey osobenno na yuge.

Thanks for understanding and support. Chox sagol. A ya to dumal chto iz mena uje “chushku sdelali”.

Dorogaya Forta, Spasibo za otvet. Tolko tuta popravka. Nikto nikavo ne vybirayeti net tapsha. Razgovor idet o znakomstve. It is must be a mutual feeling tak zkazat vzaimnoye. Bolshoye spasibo.

Mon cher ami, Vous avez un problème. Aucun besoin d'être agressif ou grossier. Voulez-vous que j'ait écrit la poste pareille en français?

My dear, Sounds like you understood the question the way you wanted it. I expected that kind of response. Please have another look at what I wrote. It looks like the issue is taking the wrong direction.

Zdravstuyte, Ya by xotel uznat vashe mneniye osobenno devushek naschet jenitby. Konskretneye - paren Azerbaijanetz zakonchil universitet v Severnoy Amerike. Stal grajdaninom i projivayet opat' je v Shtatax. Vozrast 27. Normalniy paren tak skazat' s jenshinami problem net. Vrode vse isproboval i vezde pobyval. No vot tolko jenitsa na amerikankax ne xochu. Ne nravitsa mne ix ponimayeli "mentalitet" krome tovo the divorce rate is too high. Nedanvo mne roditeli nameknuli po telefonu mol priezjay nas navestit, za odno i s mestnimi devushkami poznakomishsa i voobshe ne pora by tebe jenitsa. I voprosi related to this issue like if i met my "soulmate" so far or not. Anyways long story short ... roditeli xotat mena poznakomit s Azerbaijankoy kogda ya poedu v blijaysheshe budusheye v Azerbaijan. Oni ne nestaivayut mol sam smotri govoryat krome tovo oni ne "konservativni". Ya sam nekogda ne dumal chto jenus tak ... . Krome tovo v semye brak po raschotu ne u kovo ne byl. Vopros ko vsemu forumu. Kako vovashe mneniye naschet takix "sensitive issues"? A tak je vopros v devushkam chto vi dumayete ob etom i kak k etomu otnosites? Chox sagolun.